\u00c1 j\u00f6r\u00f0inni b\u00faa sj\u00f6 milljar\u00f0ar. Allavega s\u00ed\u00f0ast \u00feegar \u00e9g g\u00e1\u00f0i. Hefur sennilega b\u00e6st eitthva\u00f0 vi\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0an. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 heimurinn er upplifa\u00f0ur \u00e1 sj\u00f6 milljar\u00f0a vegu. Ekkert okkar skynjar heiminn eins. Sj\u00f3nin er ekki s\u00fa sama, \u00fear sem litaskyn og skerpa leika hlutverk. Heyrnin er mismunandi. Snertiskyni\u00f0. Hvernig heilinn vinnur \u00far uppl\u00fdsingunum sem skilningarvitin senda honum skiptir svo \u00f6llu m\u00e1li.<\/p>\n

Svo\u00a0m\u00e1 ekki gleyma \u00e1hrifunum sem f\u00e6\u00f0ingarsta\u00f0ur og b\u00faseta hafa.\u00a0\u00c9g er karlma\u00f0ur, f\u00e6ddur 1969 og bj\u00f3 m\u00edn fyrstu \u00e1r \u00e1 Sk\u00f3lav\u00f6r\u00f0ust\u00edgnum og \u00fear \u00ed kring. F\u00f3r fyrstu tv\u00f6 \u00e1rin \u00ed \u00cdsakssk\u00f3la, flutti \u00ed Sm\u00e1\u00edb\u00fa\u00f0ahverfi\u00f0 og svo \u00ed Brei\u00f0holti\u00f0. Enda\u00f0i svo me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 flytja til London og svo til Hollands.<\/p>\n

<\/a>\u00c9g s\u00e9 \u00fev\u00ed heiminn \u00fat fr\u00e1 \u00feessum forsendum. Stelpa sem f\u00e6ddist 1990 \u00e1 Sau\u00f0\u00e1rkr\u00f3ki og flutti sem unglingur \u00e1 Egilssta\u00f0i, s\u00e9r heiminn allt \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi. Ef vi\u00f0 hittumst einhvern daginn \u00e1 Alexanderplatz \u00ed Berl\u00edn, er vi\u00f0b\u00fai\u00f0 a\u00f0 upplifun okkar af sta\u00f0num ver\u00f0i ekki s\u00fa sama.<\/p>\n

En \u00fea\u00f0 er erfitt a\u00f0 m\u00e6la upplifun. Allt sem vi\u00f0 getum gert er a\u00f0 vir\u00f0a upplifun hvers og eins. Allavega ef vi\u00f0 erum svo \u00fer\u00f6ngs\u00fdn a\u00f0 geta ekki haft \u00e1huga \u00e1 a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 skilja hana.<\/p>\n

\u00dev\u00ed hva\u00f0 er skemmtilegra en a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 heiminn me\u00f0 augum annars f\u00f3lks? Setja sig \u00ed spor \u00feess?<\/p>\n

Hvernig getur ma\u00f0ur skili\u00f0 heiminn ef ma\u00f0ur skilur ekki samfer\u00f0amennina?<\/p>\n

\u00c9g t\u00f3k d\u00e6mi um stelpu fr\u00e1 Sau\u00f0\u00e1rkr\u00f3ki, en \u00edmyndum okkur ef \u00e9g hef\u00f0i teki\u00f0 d\u00e6mi um homma fr\u00e1 Addis Ababa. E\u00f0a Nairobi. Teheran.<\/p>\n

\u00de\u00e1 erum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 tala um eitthva\u00f0 allt anna\u00f0. \u00de\u00e1 erum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 tala um manneskju sem hefur \u00feurft a\u00f0 fela s\u00edna eiginlegu pers\u00f3nu allt sitt l\u00edf. Hefur kannski horft upp \u00e1 elskhugann hengdan vegna kynhneig\u00f0ar. \u00de\u00e1 er ekki lengur gaman a\u00f0 setja sig \u00ed spor manneskjunnar, heldur l\u00edfsnau\u00f0synlegt. Ekki bara fyrir \u00fatlenska hommann (sem okkur kemur vi\u00f0, hva\u00f0 sem f\u00f3lk segir) heldur fyrir okkur sem manneskju.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 t\u00f3k okkur \u00fe\u00fasundir \u00e1ra a\u00f0 losa okkur vi\u00f0 b\u00e1biljurnar og kreddurnar sem kostu\u00f0u svo marga elskhugana l\u00edfi\u00f0. \u00deess vegna get \u00e9g ekki anna\u00f0 en haft sm\u00e1 \u00f3ge\u00f0 \u00e1 f\u00f3lki sem \u00feolir ekki a\u00f0 allir s\u00e9u ekki eins. F\u00f3lki sem vill afhomma. Vill ekki a\u00f0 krakkar heyri af samkynhneig\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed \u00feau g\u00e6tu kannski smitast. Sitja \u00ed s\u00ednum kompum og r\u00edfa kjaft yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 einhver s\u00e9 ekki alveg eins og \u00feau vilji hafa hann.<\/p>\n

<\/a>\u00c9g spyr, hverjum er ekki fjandans sama hj\u00e1 hverjum f\u00f3lk sefur? Ef kompudraugurinn\u00a0er ekki a\u00f0 sp\u00e1 \u00ed b\u00f3lf\u00f6rum me\u00f0 hommanum, af hverju er hann \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 skipta s\u00e9r af?<\/p>\n

\u00dear fyrir utan. \u00deetta sn\u00fdst ekki allt um kynl\u00edf. Og \u00fev\u00ed vir\u00f0ast hommahatararnir steingleyma. \u00deetta sn\u00fdst um a\u00f0 \u00e1stfangnir einstaklingar megi elska \u00ed fri\u00f0i, lausir vi\u00f0 \u00fer\u00f6ngs\u00fdni, kreddur og tu\u00f0 kompudrauganna.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g f\u00e6 \u00f3ge\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00e9g heyri hommahatarana jarma \u00far s\u00ednum holum, en \u00e9g vir\u00f0i r\u00e9tt \u00feeirra til a\u00f0 jarma. \u00c9g vir\u00f0i r\u00e9tt \u00feeirra til a\u00f0 gera sig a\u00f0 f\u00edflum \u00ed opinberri umr\u00e6\u00f0u. Jarmi\u00f0 d\u00e6mir sig sj\u00e1lft.<\/p>\n

\u00deess vegna finnst m\u00e9r \u00fea\u00f0 vera mist\u00f6k af Samt\u00f6kum 78 a\u00f0 k\u00e6ra kompudraugana fyrir a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta heimskulega hluti \u00fat \u00far s\u00e9r.<\/p>\n

Tj\u00e1ningarfrelsi\u00f0 \u00e1 a\u00f0 vera heilagt. Vi\u00f0 eigum \u00f6ll a\u00f0 hafa r\u00e9tt \u00e1 a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 okkur, jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0i a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 gerum okkur a\u00f0 opinberum f\u00edflum. Me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 k\u00e6ra f\u00edflin fyrir a\u00f0 segja f\u00edflalega hluti, erum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 gefa f\u00edflunum t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri til a\u00f0 dreyfa f\u00edflalegum hugmyndum s\u00ednum.<\/p>\n

Besta v\u00f6rnin gegn f\u00edflum er a\u00f0 lei\u00f0a \u00feau hj\u00e1 s\u00e9r.<\/p>\n\t